The crazy thing about living a simple life is how hard it is to do. So I’m sharing some of the lessons we learned along the way.
Living a Simple Life doesn’t mean slowing down; we’ve learned it may be the opposite.
What Does Simplify Mean?
Simplify – “to reduce to basic essentials” – Easier Said Than Done!
How Our Simple Life Began
In 2012, Brad and I decided we wanted to simplify our lives; we decided we would move to our country property, The Ponds.
We wanted a debt-free lifestyle so that we would downsize to a smaller home! Yes!
All of this sounded great!
Sell our house! Easy? No, because it wasn’t the best economy, and it took over two years to sell.
Next, get rid of everything but the essentials! Even more complicated because I get very attached to the rescued items I’ve brought home over the years! However, that’s another story!
Where was I? Oh, yes, we did sell the house and a lot of stuff! Anything left over was donated.
Finally, we were going to realize our dream of living a simple life.
I’ve always wanted a White Farmhouse to remodel. However, the property didn’t come with one. Bummer!
Although I wanted an industrial-style farmhouse, the exact plan wasn’t to be found, so I began drawing my own plan.
Below is the result of many hours on Instagram and Pinterest. I spent many hours watching Fixer Upper and many broken pencils, and lots of graph paper.
Please look at 5 Steps to Plan Your Forever Home for more details about the planning process.
I always wanted a white farmhouse, and since this was our forever home, I knew it was my last chance.
Having a lot of outdoor space was essential to our plan. Our front porch and screened porch cover the entire front of the house.
Finally, we move into the house with these grand plans to keep the house simple!
Simple Living – “minimalism, refraining from Luxury and Indulgence”!
Then I start to decorate, and guess what?
I decide that I need more essentials! So I began to hunt at barn sales, vintage shops, and thrift stores.
I start painting again. So much inspiration here in the country. The cows, the churches, etc.
Although this sounds the opposite of simplifying, I can’t apologize for wanting to do this. It’s what I love doing!
I was having a dinner party the next evening and decided I needed a painting over my table. This was the result. You see, this is how my mind works. I think of an idea and I can’t rest until it’s done. We barely had any food at this dinner party, but by gosh, I had a painting of a cow over my table.
Other Ways To Keep Us Busy
Plus, we keep adding on to the outside of the property. As you know, one thing leads to another.
So many more projects and more stuff.
We enjoy entertaining in our outdoor kitchen. This was originally an old cabin which we repurposed into an outdoor kitchen. See Outdoor Kitchen Before & After for more details.
We love entertaining, so the outdoor spaces are for bringing people together and for our own personal enjoyment.
We also added a pool and love having guests with us on hot summer weekends.
We also justify everything we do. So not only would a pool be an excellent addition, but we can use the pool for exercise. One day when we can hardly walk anymore, we will have a pool to exercise in. I don’t know who we’ll get to clean it, though??!!!
Our first project was rebuilding the pier in the middle pond! We decided to add a gazebo at the end. Brad and I love ending our day watching the sunset from the spot.
Brad and I hosted our niece’s wedding here at The Ponds Farmhouse. This was our first summer in the house. BTW, I’ve not had flowers that looked this good since. LOL
You’re probably saying, “What the heck does this have to do with living a simple life?”
We are not truly ready for retirement. Our minds are so active, and there is so much we want to accomplish.
I should say that I want us to accomplish. My husband always comes around when I plot a new idea, although it may take a little persuasion.
We are both fortunate to be healthy (as far as we know,) and it’s not time for us to sit down yet.
We need projects and goals to keep us feeling young!
At least, that’s what I keep telling my husband! LOL
Use It or Lose It
That was my Mother’s Motto, which is true because it served her well until she was 98.
I saw what retirement did to my in-laws. They basically stopped, and the combination of sitting down and poor health choices ended their lives way too early.
On the other hand, my parents lived a very long and healthy life.
My dad was working hard the day he decided he needed to have that abdominal Herrera checked out. He lived to be 86.
My mom, many of you know, passed away in August 2019 at 98. This was the first year she didn’t have a garden and several jars of green beans stored away for the winter. The first year she didn’t get to share her watermelons and cantaloupes with her neighbors and family. She lived by herself until three weeks before she died. She had a blessed life, and we were so blessed to have her with us all these years.
I’m only sharing this with you to let you know what I think about simplifying. I’ve not lived the lifestyle my parents lived. I’ve been exposed to more stress and definitely a less healthy diet. One lesson I can follow as I get older is to stay interested in life. To keep having goals and projects.
So our goal to simplify is different from the textbook definition. It’s different from what we planned or thought it would be.
However, I will say we have never been happier!
We actually thrive on our “to-do” list.
Although most people our age are thinking about a townhouse with no upkeep and no worries, we decided to bring 30 acres back to their former glory!
See These TO DO Lists projects that we’ve completed
Another aspect of living a simple life is quality of life, health and quality time.
We are not actually at retirement age (yet), but we didn’t want to be in debt at 65. We wanted to start enjoying our time at home and have less stress. We also hope to travel more.
I love vintage finds and bringing old things back to life.
That’s what we are doing here at The Ponds! This property is a part of my heritage, and although my dad is no longer with us, I’d like to think he’s happy with the work we’ve done here.
Although we may not be ready for the true meaning of “simple life,” I feel we have accomplished many goals.
- To be debt free.
- To enjoy the moments
- Have less stress
- Most of all, we sure are enjoying this season of our lives.
If you need me, I’ll be right here!
Thanks so much for stopping by! I hope my messages will inspire you in some way.
I look forward to sharing more about our “Simple life” here at the Ponds and my crazy adventures.
Please message me if you have any thoughts on living a simple life! I love seeing your questions as well.